How to survive Military Divorces?
Divorces are governed by state law. However, in the military, there are two federal acts that are used to determine spouses’ rights and responsibilities in the military family: (1) the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) and the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA). These major federal acts assist Texas courts with how to treat issues such as retirement benefits and protect service members from default judgments.
Servicemembers Civil Relief Act
The SCRA provides two protections that apply to family law: the stay of civil proceedings and relief from civil judgment. The SCRA applies to all judicial proceedings, including initial dissolution of marriage cases, post-decree matters, and administrative proceedings, but not criminal cases. SCRA protections apply to active duty members, reservists, and national guard men and women who are called up by the President or Secretary of Defense for a period of more than 30 consecutive days. 50 U.S. Code section 3911.
Stay of Civil Proceedings
Pursuant to 50 U.S. Code § 3932, the court may stay proceedings for at least 90 days on its own motion, and shall stay proceedings upon application by a member who meets the following criteria:
- The applicant is in the military service or within 90 days after termination of military service,
- The applicant has actual notice of the proceeding,
- The application is in writing and includes facts stating how military service materially affects the ability to appear, and a date when the member may appear, and
- The application includes communication from the service member’s commander that military duty prevents appearance, and leave is not available.
The initial 90-day stay is mandatory. Thereafter, the member may apply for an additional stay, using the same criteria. If the court refuses to grant the additional stay under the same criteria, the court shall appoint counsel to represent the servicemember in the action or proceeding.
Notably, if the request for a stay is denied, the member cannot then invoke the protections in section 201 to set aside the default judgment. 50 U.S. Code § 3932(d).
Protection from Default Judgments
Another family law protection for a military member is the right to set aside a default judgment against them in a civil proceeding, including child custody. 50 U.S. Code section 3931(a). In the state of Texas, prior to the judge signing an order based on default judgment, the party is required to sign an affidavit of non-military service, which states the defendant is not currently active duty military. The party’s military status can be found on the official, Servicemembers Civil Relief Website, from the Defense Manpower Data Center where you can look up whether a person is on active duty. However, you must know the person’s full name and either social security number or date of birth.
The SCRA provides that the court shall reopen the judgment and allow the member to defend his/her position when:
- The judgment was entered during the military service or within 60 days thereafter,
- The member’s ability to defend the case was materially affected by the military service,
- The service member has a meritorious or legal defense, and
- The application to reopen is made during the military service, or within 90 days after military service is terminated.
Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act
This federal act provides certain benefits to former spouses of military members. Under this law, former spouses are entitled to portions of the military member’s retirement pay, medical care, and exchange and commissary benefits.
The USFSPA grants two main authorities:
1. That state courts may treat military retired pay as they would other marital property to permit a qualified division; and,
No Automatic Entitlement: The USFSPA does not provide for an automatic entitlement to a division of military retired pay. For example, a couple may have been married throughout a full military career, yet the USFSPA does not compel a state court to award a division of retired pay to the former spouse.
2. That the appropriate government agency, Defense Finance and Accounting Service—Cleveland (DFAS-CL) could make direct payments to former spouses under certain conditions.
Enforcement: When a division of retired pay is court-ordered, USFSPA allows direct payments for former spouses only if the parties were married to each other for at least 10 years, during which time the member performed at least 10 years of creditable military service for retirement. To illustrate, marriages need not meet the condition that there were 10 years of marriage that overlapped with military service in order for the state court to direct that retired pay be divided. However, DFAS-CL will not make direct payments to the former spouse if these two requirements are not met. Payments would have to be established through the court or made personally by the Retired Soldier. The requirement that there are 10 years of marriage that overlaps with service does not apply to direct payment of child support or alimony.
Limitation: The court order will not be honored by DFAS-CL unless the court issuing the order held jurisdiction over the member. This jurisdiction requirement, however, does not apply to child support or alimony. Further, regardless of the award made by the state court, the government restricts direct payment to the former spouse to 50 percent of the member’s “disposable” retired pay. The exception to this is in the enforcement of child support garnishment orders, which can raise the direct pay amount to a total of 65 percent of disposable pay.
* Disposable pay is the product of the gross retired pay entitlement minus the following:
- Amounts owed by the member for previous overpayments or recoupment;
- Amounts deducted for court-martial fines;
- Amounts waived under Title 38, US Code, for VA disability compensation;
- Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) premiums (only if the former spouse to receive the pay division is also the named former spouse SBP beneficiary);
- Amounts of retired pay based on disability;
- Amounts owed to the U.S.; and
- Amounts withheld for federal and state income taxes, consistent with the member’s tax liability.
Military Identification and Privilege Cards
The USFSPA and its subsequent amendments authorize military benefits to certain former spouses. All of the following criteria must be met in order to receive a military ID card:
- Marriage of at least 20 years
- Creditable service of at least 20 years
- Marriage and service overlap of at least 15 years
If the overlap is at least 20 years, the former spouse receives full privileges. If the overlap is at least 15, but less than 20, years, the former spouse receives medical care only for one year from the divorce. After one year, enrollment in a premium-based, temporary transitional health care program, “Continued Health Care Benefit Program” (CHCBP), is available to a former spouse who does not have employer-sponsored coverage. Former spouses in this category, whose divorces were finalized on or before April 2, 1985, were granted indefinite medical benefits.
Sources:
Servicemembers Civil Relief Act
Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act
50 U.S. Code section 3911
50 U.S. Code section 3931
50 U.S. Code § 3932
https://scra.dmdc.osd.mil/scra/#/home
https://soldierforlife.army.mil/
Information About the Author:
Attorney Cherrell T. Holmes has been with the Manuel Diaz Law Firm since December 2021. As a Judge Advocate in the United States Army, she served as the Chief of Legal Assistance while stationed at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. She supervised 7 attorneys and 1 paralegal. The legal assistance office she served in provided military family law advice to over 60,000 Soldiers, Retirees, and Family Members. This level of expertise makes the Manuel Diaz Law Firm more equipped to handle military divorce cases.
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